Thursday, September 15, 2011

What a difference a vacation and family LOVE can make....

So, we are back from our AMAZING week away in Boston/Martha's Vineyard. We had such a great time. The wedding was absolutely PERFECT. We are so thankful that James and Alessandra included us so much in their BIG DAY! We really enjoyed staying at the gorgeous beach/wedding house and getting to know Alessandra's wonderful family and friends. They were so thoughtful to let us stay with them. It made it that much more fun. I LOVE a destination wedding! Out of all the times we have visited Boston, I still had not gone to the Vineyard. It was just as I imagined. The first day and half were rainy and cool, but the sun came out Thursday afternoon and the weather stayed perfect the rest of our trip. The town was so cute. We can't wait to go back next summer with our little guy and explore more. Maybe James and Alessandra will come with us. We just love those two. Frank is so lucky to have so many close relationships from high school and James from college. I am also lucky that they ALL are with amazing women (married or dating). I have so much fun with every one of the "wives/girlfriends/fiances". It is hard being away from them all for extended periods of time, but we pick up right where we left out as soon as we see eachother. Hopefully, we will be living closer soon. Even if that is not in the cards for us; it is still good to know we have such good/geniune people in our lives. San (as her fam and friends call her) was probably the most beautiful bride I have ever seen. I knew she would be. She is just the most naturally beautiful women inside and out. Can you tell I have a girl crush? Luckily she knows and doesn't care. The wedding went off without a hitch (except that the bride almost passed out at the altar) OOPPS!!! She got a little heated/light headed and had to take a little break. It made the service that much sweeter. Being the paparazzi that I am, I got all the ACTION on video too. Should be a funny memory to watch. She still looked gorg so that is all that matters! ha! Frank and I had a blast at the outdoor/tented reception. His highlight was giving his best man speech. He is so cute. He really did do a good job, and really enjoyed being told that. Ha! If there is one thing I don't think little Wilson will be; that is shy. His mommy and daddy do like attention..JK..kinda! I called it an early night after the wedding (but did dance till the very end) because I had stayed up with the group the couple nights before and wanted to be rested for my BIG SHOWER Sunday. I think people were a little shocked to see me cutting a rug on the dance floor with my big belly and all. Being pregnant is not an excuse to not have fun. Luckily, I felt GREAT all week and the belly is just an added accessory! Ha!




New friends!

Pretty bride at the rehearsal dinner!

Newly married!
Cute pic.not sure what I am doing with my arm!
dancing the night away
Best buds and Wilson's Godfather


Sunday morning we said our goodbyes (so sad to leave all our new friends) and headed back on the ferry to Boston. It was so pretty outside so I got to sit on the observation deck of the ferry and look out over the ocean. I think my saving grace this summer has been all the traveling to COOLER places we have done. The Charleston summer heat is NOT MY FRIEND. It is starting to cool off a bit and the miserable humidity is breaking in the morning and evenings so hopefully I can enjoy the rest of this pregnancy outside a bit more. When we got to Frank's mom's house; her and his sister Leandra were busy with last minute shower details. They went ABOVE and BEYOND!!! They made me feel so special. Jenessa also came with some yummy cookies and chicken bites. Of course all the AUNTS (as I call them...Frank's mom's sisters) also brought yummy food and treats. Wilson is one lucky little boy to be so loved. His mom did not leave any details out. All the guests brought books for him (I LOVE that) as well as tons of gifts and giftcards. We played a cute little nursery rhyme game (I def need to brush up on those). All the Conroy/Kiley women were there too. Frank's grandmother Anne was there and his cousin's wife Melanie. Frank's friends wives (Jenna and Kim) also came. My other two friend wives/girlfriends (Esther and Noelle) were there in spirit. His mom's best friend/sister Rosie and her daughter Megan came with sweet Ava (the new grandbaby). It was just an amazing day. Frank's mom had little candies wrapped with special paper just for Cash. She made a sign, had tons of balloons, made her signature candy cake, had the cutest boo boo bunnies for favors. There were candy pops, jello shots (thanks Gena), yummy cookies, amazing STRAWBERRY cupcakes (Lee-Lee). IT WAS PERFECT!!! I almost cried when I walked out to see everything, but Frank's mom already was so I just laughed. I just LOVE that woman so much. I know God has given her to me as a special gift. I need her and appreciate her so much. In my life, there have been two women that have always been there for me and I think have helped me be who I am. My grandmother was one and now momma Sue. I see alot of my grandmother in Sue. I sometimes think those two met up somewhere along the lines and agreed to be my angels. I know Wilson is going to just love his Nanna just like I adored my Nanny. Hopefully Nanny has gotten a little snuggle time in with him up in Heaven before she sends him my way.



The hubs made an appearance






My hostesses!

Of course she stayed by my side the entire time! Did I say I love her yet?

cute smell good candles





We wrapped up the week relaxing with the family and wishing our time wasn't up. It always goes by way too fast. Momma Sue and Big Frank will be here in nine short weeks so that makes it a little easier. We got all settled back in with "our girls" Tuesday night and yesterday. I went to my dreaded 3hr/four blood draw glucose test yesterday and passed with flying colors. Not one level was above normal. I guess when you starve yourself for 13 hours that will do it. The drink was still disgusting but I managed to keep it down this time. I am so happy to have that worry off my back. I am still going to watch my sugar intake, but not feel guilty every time I eat a cookie. Frank is so sweet and brought me a mini Ben and Jerry's cookie dough icecream treat home. He is the sweetest hubby!

 My 30 week checkup went well and I am now in the home stretch. They measure our fundus (uterus) every visit now and in two weeks it went from 27 to 32 so that was a little shocking. I gained three pounds so hopefully it was all in the belly (not butt) area. He was kicking and bouncing around a ton during his doplar because of the glucola drink, but his heart beat was still steadily beating! I am all signed up for the breastfeeding class and our hospital tour. Frank is also going to take the infant CPR class in November. I just need to get us in to see the pediatrician soon. We will just be relaxing and enjoying life before baby these next couple months. I know he will be here before we know it! Hope everyone (or the one person reading this) has a great weekend. I will be working...booo!

Saturday, September 3, 2011

Nursery, 29 weeks, and a big fat FAIL!!!

So, this week has not been the BEST of weeks! The third trimester and me are not starting off on the right foot. I am totally OVER the heat and feel FAT AS A COW!!! I don't want to sound like a spoiled brat because I am very thankful that God has given me the blessing of pregnancy. I know so many women would give an arm and a leg to be in my situation; it's just sometimes it gets old. 10 months is a LONG time. I have had a wonderful pregnancy so far, but feel like the weight gain and overall sluggishness is starting to do me in. I don't know if I just overdid it the last couple of weeks and now it is catching up with me or what. I do know that my belly feels as hard as a rock most times (and if I eat even the slightest bit it gets even more hard). Little baby boy is kicking and moving constantly; and I do still love that, but I am over the feeling full ALL THE TIME (and I know it only gets worse). It is hard to bend over and my back hurts constantly, and I am swollen pretty much all the time now. So, feeling already like I was defeated this week I went in for my 28 week appointment and glucose test Thursday morning. It did not go well AT ALL! First, I am starting to rotate doctors in the practice so I can meet all of them just in case my primary MD is not able to make it to the delivery for some reason.  I was instructed to stop by the lab first to get my yummy orange sugar drink then head up to my appointment. I did just that. I downed the disgustingly thick orange drink pretty fast and went to meet with the doctor. Pretty much right away my stomach was in knots. I was weighed (where I was told I gained 6lbs in 3 weeks..yippee!) and then the new doctor came in. She was ok, but not my favorite. First, she was about 5'1 and 90lbs. I think she took one look at my weight on my chart and about stroked out. She then looked at my lovely cankles and told me she would be writing me a prescription for over the belly TED hose to be worn to work! I cannot wait to put those BAD BOYS on in the 100 degree heat!!! She also told me to lay off the salt. Now, I am not sure if it was because of my high blood sugar or what, but I really wanted to kick her in the face. ( I would never). She then started in on finding a pediatrician ASAP and signing up for "classes" ASAP. Ok woman!!!! I got it!!! I have been seeing a doctor for the past 7 months so I am well aware of what needs to be done. Well, once I got out of there I was headed back down to wait thirty minutes until I could have my blood drawn to check my glucose level. That is where things got interesting. I was already feeling pretty dizzy and hott, and baby C was flipping and flopping like a mad man from all that sugar. I chugged about two 20 ounce waters in five minutes and then went to the bathroom because I just didn't feel right. I then puked up that lovely orange drink and all the water I had just consumed. FUN, FUN!!!! I knew then that my level was going to be high. I told the tech and she said the same thing, but drew it anyway. I left there feeling like a big, fat failure. That night my friend Anna (who is also preggers) called to tell me my level was 159!!!! Yikes!!! Above 135 is no good. I think it freaked her out more than me. I already knew it was going to be high. I am super bummed and a little worried about what will happen, but am glad I now know. I am avoiding ALL candy and ALL cookies. I can't totally stop eating sugar because it is in EVERYTHING, but I can lay off the pure sugar that is in cakes, cookies, and candy. I am guilty of consuming high quantities of all three of these things for the last seven months so doing without for the next 11 weeks will not kill me. I have my repeat test on September 14 when we get back from vacation. Hopefully, if I do what I am supposed to this next week and a half, I will pass that one. I am dreading it since it is double the orange drink and takes three hours. It just made an already rough week feel even worse. If it was just me getting big and fat I wouldn't care so much, but I don't want to do anything to hurt the babes. I know that there is really nothing I can do besides watching what I eat to help the situation, but I still feel guilty. To make things worse, I began packing for our tip to Boston next Tuesday and realized I have nothing to wear to the rehearsal dinner. The dress that fit a week ago will no longer zip. GREAT!!! Luckily I had a dress made to wear to the actual wedding or I would be royally screwed. I think I have a skirt that I can make work for the rehearsal, but I don't feel cute in it at all. Oh well!!!! That is enough complaining I think!!! Sorry for this rant. I am sure I will look back on this a year from now and think, "poor, pitiful Brittney...such a baby!" It feels better to get it out though. On a happier note; we are heading to Boston and Marthas Vineyard Tuesday. I cannot wait to be in the cooler weather and just relax for a week. My lovely MIL and Frank's sisters are throwing me a baby shower next Sunday. I cannot wait to be with all the people I love so much. I need that. It is hard being away from them for so long. Also, Wilson's room is pretty much done. We just have a couple things to add that are at our parent's houses (like Frank's hobby horse and my BIG stuffed lion). So here is a sneak peak so this post isn't all bad!


Changing table/dresser

Both these pictures were above my crib as a litle girl. I just had them refurbished! LOVE THEM!!




Frames to put maternity pictures in and Cash's newborn pic (me+Frank=baby)
Little framed pic of Frank and I on his dresser...match made in HEAVEN!
Two little chunks!
His shelves that I LOVE..it has glass on the sides and is distressed!
Gotta have some bulldog stuff!

Letters I painted and pom poms I made!



So that is all folks...probably won't post again until we get back from our trip. Hopefully with good news from my test! Have a great holiday weekend. I am off to work the next three nights before we leave!